The
Secret Psychic lives in your head!
You
hear the Secret Psychic all the time, although most of the time you don’t
realise that the voice is there, misguiding you through life.
The
Secret Psychic whispers into your inner ear, it reads the minds of other people
and predicts your future.
The
problem is that much of what the Secret Psychic tells you is wrong. Its
information is based on out-dated information, assumptions and your
insecurities. It channels those negative voices from the past that have held
you back over the years. It echoes the preconceptions of society around you.
Think
about the times when you knew someone didn’t like you, or the times you may
have avoided someone because of the way they looked, and the times you didn’t
bother doing something because you just knew you wouldn’t be able to do it.
That
was the Secret Psychic whispering.
Telling
you that person doesn’t like because they are avoiding eye contact and talking
to you with short sharp words, when it is much more likely that person has
other things on their mind.
That
person you avoid because of their looks? That is the Secret Psychic echoing
societies stereotypes, the negative stories you see in the media and, perhaps,
the prejudices of relatives in your childhood. It could also be based on your
past experiences with people who may have looked the same. The reality though
is that everybody is different and unless we get to know the person we cannot
make any assumption about them based solely on their looks.
Those
times when you knew you would fail, so you didn’t even bother to do it in the
first place. That is the Secret Psychic feeding your insecurities, reminding
you of past failures, echoing those negatives words that were said to you when
you were younger, undermining your confidence.
However,
just because you failed at something in the past does not mean you will fail at
something in the future. In that time you’ve grown, learnt more and are better
equipped to try again. Those people who told you that you weren’t good enough,
that you weren’t clever enough or your looks were somehow not right, were
victims of their own Secret Psychic feeding them dodgy information.
One
of the issues with the Secret psychic is that its words can turn into
self-fulfilling prophecies. You think someone doesn’t like you so, in turn, you
act offish towards them, which then makes them not like you! You think you are
going to fail so you either don’t do it or you become too nervous to complete
the task successfully in other words, you fail. You become trapped in the
Secret Psychic’s endless cycle.
The
thing, then, is to learn to quieten the Secret Psychic and stop it from holding
you back.
How?
Start to question the truth of those negative things that it whispers into your
mind because there are times the Secret Psychic could actually be right. We
need to be able to distinguish between past fears or experiences and natural
instinct.
When
you have those negatives thoughts inserted into you mind ask yourself, what is
the reality of this? How do I know it is true? What are the alternative
possibilities?
When
the Secret Psychic tells you that someone doesn’t like you ask if that is
likely to be true. After all it could be they do not know you well enough to
make any sort of judgement about you. Ask what the alternatives could be, the
other person may have things on their mind distracting them and far from making
judgements about you they could be so wrapped up in their own issues that they
are barely even noticing you.
When
thoughts of failure surface in your mind, challenge them. Are they based on
past experiences? If so, question how relevant that past experience is to you
right now, how have you or the world around you changed which renders that past
experience void now. Do your thoughts come from hurtful words said to you in the
past? Ask yourself why the words spoken by someone else’s Secret Psychic should
have such an impact on you right now.
The
Secret Psychic that lives in your psyche needs to be tamed. We need to take
control rather than live under its influence. We sometimes need to Secret
Psychic to hold us back a little but we need to use it to pause and question,
just don’t let it rule your life.
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